Have You Achieve Your Internal Goals ?

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Mostly of our goals setting year by year are just something about money, achieving something to get more money for life and financial freedom. Review back your goals, have you set your internal goals?

Internal goals i mean refer to : be more patient, emotional controlled well, solve problem as wise as we can, be more friendly, show more affection to your parents, spouse, or children, have more time to snuggle with your spouse and children, create peaceful in your home and work area, be a great dad/mom, and many more you can think about.

Mostly people thought that internal goals would just come as we had achieved our financial goals. If we have more money, we will have more time, then we can show more affection.

But, i think if we achieve our internal goals first, our financial goals will work easier and faster than we can ever imagine. By building a positive relationship and communication, we build a positive support that makes us able to work calmly and productively.

My spouse and i set some financial goals that will transform us to a better living this year, but first of all we try to achieve our internal goals, such as :

1. We act more open-minded when we discuss of something, than used to debate before
2. We used to get high-tempered when something wasn't running as request, because of high pressure at work, now we are more patient
3. When someone wasn't doing as perfect as we want, we try to look at a positive side that nobody's perfect
4. Keep smiling, be cheerful, and treat every task as a challenge game and fun with it, instead of keep thinking about our limitation, and that we are tired
5. Eat healthier food and do some exercise
6. Try not to complain too much to each other
7. Make a schedule of our work run well, and spend our weekend only for family, instead of keep busy day by day.
8. talk slowly to our children when they made mistakes by holding their hands, stare to their eyes strictly (show them you mean it and you dont like they did that), instead of yelling
9. Be more romantic to our spouse, make some surprise, and tease each other sometimes can be fun
10. I change not to be too selfish, keep busy with my work, because i am not just belong to me, but i belong to my spouse and children, they need me too.
11. Always welcome my children's greeting, even i am working, instead of ignore them. They are my "prime customer"
12. And this list will be added and added as we go

By building a peace home, great relationship with spouse and children, good communication, positive mind, healthy body and cheerful heart, we actually building a huge support. We can work easily and effectively with a fresh mind to achieve our financial goals. We need a support, we need a motivation, so start to get it from yourself and your home.

Start to change yourself and habits before you change others.

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